Quiet or wasted weekend

I spent a quiet weekend just faffing around the house. I went to the gym this morning and apart from a little mild flirtation with a guy on a very nice motorbike (yes ok, I'm a tart - but I do like a man in leather!) it was quite innocuous.

I need to think what I'm looking for, or not as the case may be.

Essential
Intelligence - my last few dates have - and I don't wish to put anyone down here, that's not my intention - not been able to keep up, I need a guy that is on the same wave length and I don't have to explain things to?

Humour - what girl doesn't?

Kind

Witty

Solvent - I'm a modern girl and will pay my way but not pick up every single tab!

Good in bed

Desirable
Tall - yes I know I'm a short arse

A twinkle in his eye

Time for a relationship

Deal breakers
Bad breath

Dogs!

Misogynist

Patronising

Cheating

Hmmm that's all I can think of for the moment......