No, no way not me.... never....with a long distance Dom?? No!
Ok, so how many times have I said to myself that I could never do an online relationship? I have seen friends struggle, some succeed, some fail.
I have chatted with this Dom for years now, one of the first I spoke to when researching what was going on in my life and what these feelings were. He is an honest, funny, intelligent man. He has seen me go through peaks and troughs and always been there. And He is 3,500 miles away.
Recently, we started talking away from others, and it just clicked. We talked about my recent attempts at vanilla relationships and He just smiled and waited for me to come to the conclusion that He knew all along.
We have discussed visits, this will be difficult on both sides. But.....oh, this is mad. He is 3,500 miles away.
There are so many things, ideas, opinions and such like that we have in common, however there are 3,500 miles between us...damn damn damn damn damn.
He makes me laugh, I look forward to getting home from work to see a message or two from Him. He looks forward to mine too.
But He is 3,500 miles away.
Have I mentioned He is 3,500 miles away!
What on earth am I doing?
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
8 comments:
Its not 10,500 miles and 24 hours flying time excluding stops and waitng for planes though is it? It would not cost 800 pounds + to get there would it?
I am guessing your Dom is not in a relationship, you dont do that (you are a good girl) I am guessing that He is looking for a relationship (like you are). I am guessing that you are both prepared to make trips to see each other. I am guessing that 3500 miles is only a small plane flight which can be done reasonably easily. I am guessing that you both wish to develop the relationship further.
Put it this way sweetness, you have not had ANY luck meeting someone living near you (they have all been wrong for one reason or another). I have found, or I found initially when I first met CK that our relationship developed through talking and communication, way before anything sexual developed (although of course there was flirting online) but because ALL we had was the phone and typing and text messages our bond and closeness became stronger than a normal one as there was little point in lying or making things up when we relied so heavily on the only forms of communication we had available to us. There was also the "shield" of not having to go through with anything we didnt want to as there was the safety barrier of just "disappearing". Because of all that we were able to tell each other things we would not normally tell anyone else, there was that "safety" barricade if we choose to close it. It protected both of us somewhat until our relationship became so strong the issue of trust is rarely doubted. Talking to someone online is easier than the first date meeting in person thing, I am sure you have found that you have told your Dom way more than you would normally tell someone face to face. Why not try the LD thing? It cannot be any worse can it? Really?
Smiles
I am a veteran girl, you can lean on me for this one!
hugs
xxxx
Rosie... i love you...grins and hugs.
So many things there struck true including the openness and the safety barricade.
Right i'm late for work but smiling.
Hugs and stuff
Bridget
xxxx
Smiles
As a Master in a long distanve relationship with my lil rose I could offer you advice in this matter,but it would be futile as just by your excitement in your post its clear that you submissive side as already been stolen by this Master you can do nothing but look forward to it.....................relax and enjoy what will be the start of a fullfilling relationship ..................enjoy and keep us informed
CK
I just have to add one thing here.... My Master is a cockney... "as" = "has"
shhhhhh
xxxx
Smiles and grins and smiles more. Thank you both.
Yes CK Sir, my submissive side is in overdrive. Why do i bother trying to deny it when one word, a smile and a 'good girl' turn me to jelly. It's like coming home.
Smiles to CK and hugs rosie
Bridget
xxxx
Yes i'm happy for you too. I think give it a shot. What's to lose really, it could work out very well, at the least you'll learn a lot about yourself and have a fun time. Sorry about the rambling, I'm sick and not making much sense, but it's working for both rosie and I, different circumstances, different struggles, different lives, but there are more and more stories I hear every day about people who meet on the net, hook up, and spend a long time together. It's obviously feeding a great need, so relax!
xxxx milla
thank you milla, i need all the reassurance i can get right now, i've always been so..nope not me!
Hugs
Bridget
xxxx
p.s. also tired and poorly, hope you feel better soon
Poor girls!
xxxx
Post a Comment